Working on a movie set is like a marathon—not a sprint. And honey, if you’re spending all your energy trying to please everyone, you’re gonna burn out before lunch. 🍽️😵 In this video, I explain why this method saves your energy and keeps you sharp for the job you were hired to do. Watch, take notes, and reclaim …
Read more “On-Set Survival Tip: The “4 Strikes” Rule – Stop People Pleasing! 🎬🚫”
Happy Valentine’s Day to all the romantics, the cynics, and the ones still waiting for their meet-cute! Whether your love story is a swoon-worthy classic or a plot-twisting thriller, may today bring you the kind of drama that belongs in a novel—and not your dating life. (Unless you like a little mess… in that case, carry on. …
Read more “📖💕 “Be still, my heart… or at least wait for the next plot twist!” 💕📖”
Ever been at a party and suddenly realized… you’re over it? But instead of bracing yourself for the gauntlet of “Wait, you’re leaving?!” and “Oh my God I love you sooooo much”—you simply disappear? Congratulations, you’ve mastered the Irish Goodbye! 🏳️🌈✨ In this video, I explain why this is an elite move and why you should embrace …
Read more “The Art of the Irish Goodbye: We Gays Are the Masters of the Vanishing Act 🎭✨”
Ever wonder who you are when no one’s watching? Or, maybe more disturbingly—who’s watching when you think you’re alone? That’s the unsettling premise of The Voyeur’s Motel by Gay Talese, a book that turned out to be an absolute page-turner for our book club. It’s the true(ish?) story of a man who turned his roadside motel into a …
Read more ““The Voyeur’s Motel” – A Book So Salacious, We Couldn’t Look Away”
If you love campy horror, questionable decision-making, and an obnoxious amount of smoke-machine fog, let me introduce you to a little film called INTERMEDIO. This 2005 B-horror masterpiece (read: glorious chaos) was cooked up by the fine folks at The Asylum—the same production company behind Sharknado and Mega Shark vs. Giant Octopus—so you already know what you’re in for. The plot? A group of suspiciously …
Read more “Intermedio: That Time I Got Hunted in a B-Horror Movie”
What if a movie had a signature scent? And what if a character did too? Mashing together my love for film and fragrance, I took on the challenge of assigning a scent to Abroad, the thriller I had the pleasure of acting in. Given the film’s North Shore setting—sweeping vistas, dense pine forests, and a hint …
Read more “Scent & Cinema: The Signature Fragrance of Abroad—A Thrilling Mashup of Film & Fragrance”
I recently picked up Uta Hagen’s Respect for Acting, and right from the introduction, something she said truly resonated with me. She makes it clear that the stage and the classroom are not the places to work through personal trauma—that’s what therapists and healthy coping mechanisms are for. Instead, she encourages actors to bring the best …
Read more “Respect for Acting: Paul Cram’s Mini Book Review”
Every so often, a book comes along that feels especially relevant—not because it’s a masterpiece, but because it speaks directly to the moment we’re living in. That Librarian by Amanda Jones is one of those books. Part memoir, part manifesto, it tells the story of how speaking up at a library board meeting in 2022 led to …
Read more “Book Talk: “That Librarian” by Amanda Jones – A Memoir, A Manifesto, and a Must-Read”
Throwback to an intense moment on the set of the never-released horror film “Anniversary,” filmed in the hauntingly beautiful landscapes of Maine. Here’s Paul Cram, fully in the moment—just before his character’s brutal and heartbreaking demise. (He always seems to play the ones who don’t deserve to die… but do. 😭) In the background, extras …
If you’re in the mood for a suspenseful adventure that keeps you on the edge of your seat, look no further than Abroad(2023). This gripping mystery-thriller, directed by Giovanni Fumu, follows the harrowing journey of Taemin, portrayed by Jang Sung-bum, a foreigner stranded in an unfamiliar land. When his girlfriend, Minji (Youngjoo Lim), vanishes without a …
Read more “Unraveling Mysteries in the Movie ‘Abroad’ | #ThrillerMovie #Suspense”