Ever fallen down a fragrance review rabbit hole and ended up… with a full bottle at your door? Same. In this video, I share my scent story about blind buying Leau Revel by d’hubert after reading rave reviews on Fragrantica. Why? Because many said it reminded them of Geranium Pour Monsieur by Frederic Malle—a scent I’ve sampled, swooned over, …
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What happens when you finally start telling the truth—and the people who claimed to unconditionally love you suddenly disappear? In this raw and unfiltered episode, Paul Cram shares his deeply personal story of family estrangement, the quiet grief of being unseen, and the heartbreak of showing up for people who never bothered to know him …
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Every era gets its lemons. What matters is what we make out of them—art, rest, rebellion, or really good cocktails. Make lemonade. Make something. Just don’t go to seed. 🍹 https://paulcramactor.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/lemons.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | Download
A cautionary tale of people-pleasing, pride, and a very bad leg. ⚠️ TW: Medical gore / surgical ickiness ahead.🎥 Film: The Soviet Sleep Experiment🩵 Starring: One very committed actor and his full-leg bruise Method Acting or Medical Malpractice? You Decide.Actors do dumb things in the name of “the craft.” Exhibit A: Me. While filming The Soviet Sleep Experiment, I had …
In this first episode of Soft Weird, Paul Cram’s fifth season of podcasting, Paul kicks things off with a splash — literally. Set at a backyard “Pride in July” party complete with three inflatable pools, rainbow decor, and a bonfire, Paul reflects on how joining queer sports leagues like Stonewall Dodgeball and Kickball has led …
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Actors, listen up: If you want to make your life (and everyone else’s) easier—memorize your lines. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve been ready to jump into a scene, only to be stalled by someone (or myself—gasp! 😱) fumbling with lines. Know. Your. Damn. Lines. 📝 It’s the easiest way to be a prepared, professional, …
The Audition That Left a Mark Several years ago, I stepped into an audition room, as actors do—hopeful, and ready to give it my best shot. I was asked to utilize my body as part of my craft for a commercial. But in that space, someone in power—one of the producers—unfortunately made a joke at …
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Throwback to an intense moment on the set of the never-released horror film “Anniversary,” filmed in the hauntingly beautiful landscapes of Maine. Here’s Paul Cram, fully in the moment—just before his character’s brutal and heartbreaking demise. (He always seems to play the ones who don’t deserve to die… but do. 😭) In the background, extras …
If you’re in the mood for a suspenseful adventure that keeps you on the edge of your seat, look no further than Abroad(2023). This gripping mystery-thriller, directed by Giovanni Fumu, follows the harrowing journey of Taemin, portrayed by Jang Sung-bum, a foreigner stranded in an unfamiliar land. When his girlfriend, Minji (Youngjoo Lim), vanishes without a …
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Twin Cities, MN – December 2024 – Get ready to stream a cinematic experience that brings the beauty of Minnesota’s North Shore to the screen while keeping viewers on the edge of their seats. Abroad, a gripping mind-bending thriller, is now available to watch on major streaming services. Shot in and around Duluth and the North …