Season 5 – i am Paul Cram

Making Room at the Table | A Message to Christian Families with Queer Loved Ones

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast May 14, 2026May 14, 2026Comments are Disabled

Not a theology debate. Just an honest conversation about love, family, and making room at the table. A conversation for Christian families with queer loved ones. This episode explores the difference between being invited… and truly belonging. We talk about: Not a theology debate.Just an honest conversation about love, family, and making room at the …

What a Buck-Naked Rugby Player Taught Me About Anxiety and Self-Regard | 🍬 Soul Snack

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast May 10, 2026May 10, 2026Comments are Disabled

A Hookup, a Rugby Player, and the Shame Script I’m Unlearning In this episode of Soft Weird, I talk about a night out at the Saloon that turned into something much deeper than a funny one night stand story. What started as chemistry with a very large rugby built man became an unexpected reflection on …

The Empathy Exams Afterparty | 📚 Book Talk

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast September 18, 2025September 17, 2025Comments are Disabled

Some essays slapped, some I skimmed—let’s unpack the highs, lows, and why it still sparked big questions. Good, Not Great (But Worth Talking About) Leslie Jamison’s The Empathy Exams is one of those essay collections that gets talked about a lot. But here’s the thing: for me, it was good—not great. Some chapters gripped me hard (the opening …

Beyond Charlie Kirk: Violence, Words, and the Culture of Debate | 🍬 Soul Snack

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast September 12, 2025September 12, 2025Comments are Disabled

A reflection on division, rhetoric, and the choices that shape our shared humanity. Yesterday, Charlie Kirk was murdered. In this episode, I sit with the complexity of that reality—the grief, the anger, and the deeper questions it raises about our society. This isn’t a hit piece or a celebration. It’s an attempt to reflect honestly …

5 Audiobooks That Had Me HOOKED | 📚Book Talk

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast September 11, 2025September 8, 2025Comments are Disabled

Sad, Brutal, Hilarious & Unforgettable Ever hit play on an audiobook… and suddenly it’s 3AM, you’re dehydrated, and you’ve ignored every text in your inbox? Same. In this episode, I’m sharing 5 audiobooks I couldn’t stop listening to in August—from brutal Hunger Games prequels to a memoir that’ll gut-punch you, to Irish crime fiction so …

What’s Really Priceless in Life? | 🌀 Timeline Cleansers

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast September 7, 2025September 2, 2025Comments are Disabled

You know the classic saying “The Best Things In Life Are Free” – well it’s true. A brief timeline cleanser talking about gold, diamonds, sapphires, rubies, and what each holds and it’s equivalent in some ways with experiences and friends that are free. https://paulcramactor.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/Whats-Really-Priceless-in-Life_.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | Download

The Sounds on the Lake at Sunset | 🌀 Timeline Cleansers

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast August 31, 2025August 28, 2025Comments are Disabled

A brief reprieve from it all, toes curled on the dock, the sunset, the moon nearby. What are your favorite summer night sounds? . https://youtube.com/shorts/DTCNDGf0xwohttps://paulcramactor.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Timeline-Cleansers_-The-Sounds-of-a-Setting-Sun-on-the-Lake.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | Download

The (Sometimes) Awkward Dance of Consent | 🍬 Soul Snack 🎥 Behind the Scenes

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast August 28, 2025September 6, 2025Comments are Disabled

That Time a Co-Star Kissed Me Without Asking… And I Said Nothing… And What I Wish I’d Said Theater is a dance—shared sweat, casual touch, slipping into character, and learning quirks along the way. But what happens when familiarity crosses a line? In this Soft Weird episode, I share a story from a film set …

Sun’s Out, Buns Out | 🌀 Timeline Cleansers

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast August 25, 2025August 28, 2025Comments are Disabled

A cheeky little end-of-summer monologue to clean the palate. https://paulcramactor.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Timeline-Cleansers_-Suns-Out-Buns-Out.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Perfume collection shelf with many high-end bottles

Recognizing a Perfume on a Friday Night and Other Musings | 👃🏻 Scents & Sensibility

by iamPaulCram TeamPodcast, Style & Scents August 21, 2025August 28, 2025Comments are Disabled

A romp through perfumes, memory, and a man I call Mr. Smells Good. What’s in a smell? A whole lot, it turns out. In this episode, I tell the story of Mr. Smells Good—a man whose daily fragrance choices made me rethink how powerful (and hilarious) scent can be. From lavender-triggered nostalgia to why some …